July 2021

Yesterday, July 7, 2021 was my 69th birthday. We started to celebrating on Saturday July 3 and are finishing later today, July 9.

The one special highlight of my birthday was when I got a text from my sister Kathy who was visiting my Mom, she asked if I was able to take a call from Mom. I stopped right there in the cookie aisle of Shoprite and my Mom sang HAPPY Birthday to me – it was very low but I heard every word. Now my Mom has been ill and has her voice is very low. I miss her daily calls to me at 9:00 am every day… and the last thing I expected was her singing to me. Now for as many years i can remember she would call everyone on their birthday and sing to them… so I was overjoyed when that happened yesterday… I was crying my eyes out with joy right there in the cookie aisle… Just a wonderful moment and memory!!!

On Sunday, July 4, 2021 I ran 9 miles as part of my training for a Marathon around middle of October. Paul and Gretchen were out to celebrate with us and Paul ran with me on Sunday – that is so wonderful when he runs with me. I am amazed I can do that.

The statistics from my run

I am in week 6 of the 18 week Hal Higdon training plan – this Saturday I run 10 miles, I know I can do it I try not to concentrate on the distance and just run.

We continued with a nice dinner and a Birthday Ice Cream Cake for desert, of course there were gifts, which were very thoughtful and generous.

Here we are at dinner – we had to eat inside because it was raining out on Saturday when we did the celebration

Paul and Gretchen with Megan and I.

Yesterday my birthday Megan had a few gifts for me and later in the day I logged into the Roxbury Zoom Meeting for the Roxbury Writer’s Group reading of our original writing. I was first up because they do it in alphabetic order. I read my piece which is a story about John and Tommy identical twins living on opposite coasts of the country when trouble brews on the west coast and the twin on the East comes to help. There were three others that read their stories – all very different and very engaging. It is good to get together with these other writers to give each other perspective on our writing.

The following link will bring you to a recording of the Reading session by the Roxbury Writer’s Group on Wednesday, July 7, 2021 (my birthday)

https://www.facebook.com/roxburylibrary/videos/244676463825242

To cap out the day I had a quick dinner because I did not have time before the writer’s session, we had a small cake to celebrate my birthday.

Megan and I with my second birthday cake

Tonight, July 8, 2021 we will go to LaStrada Restaurant to finish the celebration of my birthday!

Thank you for all those that helped make this birthday very special.

Hawaii Trip 2021

We had a wonderful vacation in Hawaii from May 20, 2021 to June 5, 2021. We had delayed the trip which was originally planned for September 2020, but had to delay it due to the Coronavirus pandemic. We did have to adhere to some strict protocols, but that did not matter we were taking the trip and would do what we had to do. That entailed each of us signing up on the Hawaiian Tourist website to give details of our trip, including air and hotel and answer health questions, oddly if we had a flu shot. Three days before our flight to Oahu we drove to Pennsylvania to have COVID Tests (the particular test was not offered in New Jersey). We got the necessary negative result and loaded to the site and shortly later got the required QCR code which we showed on arrival in Oahu.

This process was done two more times for each of the islands we were flying to, which was Maui on May 24, and Kauai on May 30.

In Oahu we visited the Arizona Memorial and Diamond Head, which I hiked to the top of.

We also visited Punch Bowl National Cemetery and visited the grave of Carrie Ann Foley, little daughter of Patrick Foley.

We visited Diamond Head and I hiked up to the top, it was difficult because part of the path was lava rock which had many crevices which made for very carefully following the path.

We flew to Maui and had five days there.

We did a lot of exploring on Maui, including driving to a park up a windy road and a town where we did some shopping.

Sunset in Maui

We also did a day trip to Lanai from Maui.

Kauai was our favorite island so much lush green everywhere.

We also went to the Kauai Coffee Company

On Kaui we also went to a Luau at the hotel – the first they did since last year.

Our last day we went on a Snorkeling / Sunset Dinner Cruise.

Our trip to Hawaii was spectacular – we enjoyed every moment of our time there. We plan to return one day maybe even next year!!! If you have never gone there please consider it: you will not be disappointed.

Aloha – have an Aloha day…. wonderful pace of life there, I hope to continue that as we enjoy the beautiful spring / summer weather here on the eastern coast of this great country!

Exciting Time

Sunday was Megan’s 70th Birthday!

We surprised her with visits from a few people, her dear friend Pam and her brother Tom, Paul and Gretchen were here already as we had diner together on Saturday night but the other two were a surprise. We had some snacks and then sandwiches we made from a cold cut platter I had ordered.

After we were done with lunch we had three more surprise guests, Camille and Mike, friends from across the street and Andrea a friend we know many years, her husband Warren was unable to come because of a quarantine for a procedure.

Ready for Dinner Saturday Night
With friend Donny Walberg (Blue Bloods)
Andrea, Mike, Camille, Chris, Megan, Gretchen, Tom, Paul, Pam
Happy Birthday

We had a wonderful time, we closed out the celebration with a delicious Canoli Cake!

Happy 70th Birthday Megan, you are very special to me and so many others!!

Thanks to all who helped us celebrate and make it a special day for Megan!

It was such a nice day that I went to the garden and cleared out all the weeds so I can buy and plant vegetable plants later in the week!

I really enjoy spring and summer.

Stay tuned since we are going to Hawaii two weeks from Thursday so look for reports from the road!

Life is Good

We have several Life is Good t-shirts. They have a store down in the Outer Banks and it is kind of fun to shop for something new.

Of course Life is Good, life is precious and we are thankful for every day we have.

I have continued my weekly baking of cookies, this week I baked Oatmeal Raisin Cookies, I continue to give them out to the neighbors and the grocery ladies. It is so nice to see the smiles, one of the ladies gave me a box of sandwich bags (I use those bags to give the cookies in, that was very thoughtful. The 94 year old lady gave me another book, she gave me three last week, one of which I read already and now I have three more…. It is so much fun to try out these different authors.

I continue to reserve a portion of the cookies for the support group on Monday evenings. It has been slow going since September, people are still reluctant to come out now even with vaccines. We are available for those in need and will continue to offer an outlet for those willing to come.

Oatmeal Raisin Cookies
Oatmeal Raisin Cookies

I am thankful for the warmer weather I have been able to run outside for a few weeks now, this past week I was not able to run because the temperature dropped. I am very reluctant to run in the cold like if it is below 60 degrees. Around 60 is perfect, a little warmer is good.. but of course you can’t run when it is too hot.

Run path on the Morris Canal Trail

I also love to do puzzles, I just finished a very hard one, possibly the hardest one I ever did It was a Christmas Gift from my dear wife Megan – it took me about two months to complete it. It is fun to do and a challenge is always good.

My latest puzzle!

Recently my Mom, Marie Chernick had some serious health issues and she is currently in the hospital as the doctors try to stabilize her. This came suddenly and I ask for your prayers and support during this difficult time.

As I said Life is Good and it is important to take care of ourselves the best we can, that is not a guarantee but gives us a better chance as we age and become more vulnerable to things as they come along.

I am also glad that people are getting vaccinated, that will help us all get back to a safe re-opening of our society as a whole.

Be well and stay safe.

COVID-19 Vaccination Status

I got my second dose of Pfizer vaccine for COVID-19 yesterday (Thursday, March 18, 2021). I feel fine, soreness in my arm overnight which subsided early in the day and now is mild (11 hours after the shot) – the shot was yesterday at about 2:10 pm and it is now 12:45 pm.

Update – Later in afternoon I started to feel tired, I slept on the couch for a few hours, I got up to eat some dinner but then laid down again and went to bed around 8:30 pm… I feel better this morning at about 8:20 am Saturday.

I got my shots at the Morris County Regional Vaccine Center on the first floor of the old Sears Store at the Rockaway Mall.

When I went for the first shot it was a lot warmer than yesterday and I went right in but then waited a long time inside as there were a lot of people there at that time (February 25, 2021).

Yesterday was chilly and raining. I got there about 15 minutes early and when I got to the line the guard told me to come back at 1:40, about 12 minutes later. Since it was raining I went back to the car and waited…. I got to the line again and was told to come back at 1:45 (5 minutes later). I walked over to the mall entrance and went inside and waited about 5 minutes.

At that point I went to the end of a line, a nice young man and I arrived at the line together, he was actually ahead of me and he told me to go in front of him. That was so nice – there are nice people out there for sure. It took about 15 minutes before we got to shelter near the entrance. It was crazy we had to wait outside in the rain. However this was the only bad experience the waiting in the rain, so I will not concentrate on that.

When I got to the nurse that I was assigned to she said “Oh, I remember you!” I said you do, from my eyes? She said “no – you were the one with the cut off name that I fixed”. Yes, I did remember her… the first time I had said to her my name was “Christopher” not “Christoph”. That my license says Christoph so she took the card and added “er” to the end…… Pretty cool it was the same nurse…

The vaccine is a miracle of science that is based on technology that his evolved over the last 20 or 30 years – starting with the mapping of the gnome so many years ago. For most people the vaccine is safe and will be part of the key that will get us to some form of normal – with herd immunity.

Unfortunately Megan did not get an appointment locally at the Morris County Regional Center so she has an appointment the end of month in Southern Jersey about 2 hours away. We are hoping something pops up locally before that appointment. But we will do the trip if we have to.

Also, it does not matter which vaccine you get because you get protection from all of them.

Please let me know how you are doing and if you got the vaccine.

Writing

In February I joined a writing group sponsored by the Roxbury Library. There are six other people in the group. Rosemary the leader is the coordinator and is most experienced in writing. The others seem to range in experience and style, which makes it very interesting to attend.

I have written three pieces for the group so far the Valentine’s message that I wrote about around Valentine’s Day https://the-encore.blog/valentines-day-2021/.

We meet monthly via zoom on the first Monday of the month. One of the things they do something called Pop Topic – someone presents a topic and then everyone goes off and writes what they can based on that topic. This time one of the members put out a topic based on the movie Its a Wonderful Life, you are supposed to write as if the world did not have you like George in the movie. I am not sure if I will do that one, but will try it.

I am thankful for my son Paul who so willingly served as my editor for these pieces.

The two pieces I have written are shown below:

The first piece I wrote was about How the Coronavirus affected Me.

It was a warm May afternoon.  I carried a bag of cookies up a driveway and I saw my neighbors Mike and Kate, but with the bright sun in my eyes I did not see their two young girls, Hailey  (6) and Norah (3) initially.  When I saw them all, Mike was saying to his girls, “Go ahead and give it to him!”  They had a colorfully-decorated poster with a rainbow made out of little pieces of construction paper and along the top it said “Thank You for Bringing Joy to Our Neighborhood.”I had been delivering small packages of homemade cookies to the neighbors every Sunday since the early days of the pandemic, which  I have continued to do every week.

When the pandemic hit I contacted the local food pantry, where I volunteer, and asked if there were any people in the community that could not get out to do grocery shopping. They gave me contact information for a woman who wasn’t able to take the town bus due to the pandemic.  I did her food shopping weekly through July, which is when the bus returned.  The word was passed and I ended up doing weekly shopping for three other women in town during that period.

I work with a support group in town for people with depression and bipolar disorder; when that group discontinued weekly meetings, for which I baked cookies weekly, I decided to continue to bake on Sunday and deliver them to the four ladies I got to know through the food pantry and the neighbors on my street.

I feel thankful that I was able to bring some joy to people that were adapting to the restrictions that the Coronavirus dealt to us. 

The Coronavirus has been hard.  We were able to take our vacation in the Outer Banks ofCarolina but had to delay a planned trip to Hawaii, and we were not able to have any summer gatherings of family and friends.  I am thankful that we are healthy and thankful I got to know the neighbors and these ladies in town. A true silver lining getting to know these people.

We anxiously wait for the vaccine and the ability to get back to some degree of normalcy.

The second piece I wrote was a piece of fiction which I called “Trouble on the West Coast”

After finishing an article about a successful international operation to arrest the leaders of a drug cartel, John turned the page of the newspaper and saw something that caught his eye: a photograph of a man who looked exactly like himself.  It had the caption, Thomas Applebee shown as he was arraigned on embezzlement charges in San Francisco Superior Court. He read the article below the photo and it appears that there was $10 Million discrepancy in the endowment fund at Pepperdine University and a mysterious $10 Million in the New York Amalgamated Bank account of this Thomas Applebee, the man who looked just like John – and for good reason, for Thomas was better known to John as his twin brother Tommy.

John began to think of his brother in a prison.  How could that happen?  John had been busy with his life in New York, working as CFO of Northern Suburban Bank, a major competitor of New York Amalgamated, and living in Chappaqua, NY.  His mind flashed back to the times surfing on the Malibu coast while in school at Pepperdine University with his brother. How many years ago was that?

John thought something did not sound right, and he called Tommy, who told him immediately that he knew nothing about what he was being accused of, nothing about the account the money was found in. 

“I don’t even have an account at that  bank.  Why would I?  Aren’t they your biggest competitor?” He went on, “I contacted a private investigator but he has not reached any conclusion.”

John said he would reach out to a few contacts to see what he could find out.  He called Steve Smith, the long-serving head of security at Northern Suburban Bank. 

Steve said, “I can put you in touch with a firm we use for tracking money laundering and missing funds.” 

The next thing John knew, he was on a plane with Alex Hart, a senior analyst at the firm of Peach and Company, after giving a $25,000 retainer the day before.

After landing in San Francisco they met Tommy at a hotel near the airport.   Alex explained that he had put the wheels of investigation in motion and already received some relevant information. 

“I need you to sit down for this,” Alex said, gesturing to three wicker chairs surrounding a table.

“All of the funds were withdrawn from the college endowment three weeks ago by Sigma Corporation, a shell organization connected to a Central American drug cartel.  The money was moved to a fictitious account, created in Tommy’s name, but with someone else’s Social Security Number and address.  I’m not sure how the authorities missed that, but they did.”

Alex continued.  “This was done by hacking into Pepperdine’s computer system, including the payroll system.  They got deep enough to determine that Tommy was an alumnus in a senior position with access to the endowment.  They pulled your personal information, searched online to figure out your connection to the endowment, and then they hit the endowment fund using your credentials and depositing the funds in Tommy’s fictitious account that they created using stolen information.” 

“Based on similar cases, I can easily prove that anyone who was actually laundering the money would have moved it out of the account by now.  Plus, that shell corporation is affiliated with the cartel whose leaders were arrested recently.  They probably were going to blackmail you, Thomas, but had to abandon their scheme.”

Alex said he had alerted the New York Amalgamated Bank of this scam, and so the account was frozen and any activity to withdraw funds would be traced by the FBI field office.

“After we finish here, I’ll be calling Pepperdine.  They might have to name buildings after both of you for all of this trouble,” Alex half-joked.

The next day Tommy appeared in court, and his attorney called Alex to the stand.  He presented the information on the events around the movement of these funds. 

After a few questions, the judge dismissed the case.  John hugged his brother and decided to stay with him in California for a few weeks.

I enjoy writing and look forward to more challenging pieces and learning different techniques.

Late Winter Thoughts

Hello Everyone:

It has been a while since I last wrote so I wanted to put an update on the status of life in suburban New Jersey.

We are well and we are on our way to the post pandemic era, I received my first dose of Pfizer vaccine on Thursday, February 25, 2021 and get my second dose on March 18. For some reason Megan did not get notice for an appointment yet, but we are sure it should be.

I continue to run six days a week on the treadmill, with a break on Saturdays. I look forward to running outside and increasing my distance but for now using the treadmill fills the need.

I continue to bake cookies every week, I usually bake a double batch so I have enough to give 3 or 4 to each neighbor. Yesterday was especially nice because several people thanked me for remembering them, one of them said they look forward to the cookies every week and one said they get better every week.

The young family up the street gave me this little poster (the 7 year old is so shy she disappeared when I came to the door.

Irish Blessing from young family on Colonial Way

My 94 year old friend gave me a book by James Grisom – A Time for Mercy, the first book I am reading by this author. I gave her The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls, an amazing book about resilience, poverty and the importance of family even in a dysfunctional setting. It is a book that makes you think and appreciate what you have. I thank my daughter-in-law, Gretchen for giving it to me.

Be well and stay safe!!!!

Valentine’s Day 2021

Valentine’s Day is a special day to confirm our love and friendship for others.

I joined a writing group sponsored by the library the first piece I wrote for the group was “Love” for valentine’s day.

Yesterday I baked pink heart shaped sugar cookies, I coated them with red or white sugars, the red came out better than plain sugar.

As usual I distributed the cookies to the four grocery ladies and the neighbors, wishing those I got to speak to a Happy Valentine’s Day.

Later in the afternoon the door bell rang and the young family two houses up were standing there, the Mom and Dad and two little girls, who were holding cards for me. Valentine’s cards thanking me for the pretty cookies. They were bouncing around in there little boots smiling with their hats and ear mufflers…. so preciously cute.

Here are pictures of the cookies and the cards the girls gave me.

The below piece I wrote on Love was published in the library newsletter / email with the writings of the other writers.

Love

Valentine’s Day was originally established in 460 AD as February 14 by Pope Gelagius in honor of Saint Valentine who died on that date in that year.

Valentine’s Day is a day when one acknowledges or professes their love for another. Marriages and marriage proposals are common on that day, in fact I proposed to my wife Megan on Valentine’s Day 1977 and we were married on September 10 of that year.

Love is a wonderful gift and can generate a strong positive emotion and lift the mental state of an individual.  There is also love of a friend when there is a strong friendship that has developed.

The love of a mother for a child is strong from the moment of birth and lasts a lifetime. True  love between two people will last a life time and I have been fortunate to experience that. 

As we have navigated the pandemic I have thought love thy neighbor as I have delivered cookies to people in the neighborhood on a weekly basis.

Snow Storm 2021

When we moved to New Jersey in 1986 we called it the snow capital of the world, we had a snow plow guy that would plow the driveway early in the morning so I could get out early for work.

Those were the days, over the last few years we have not had much accumulation.

Welcome to 2021 – following the epic 2020 year!

We had the big snow storm of about 14 inches on February 1, 2021.

Driveway Cleared on February 1, 2021

We had a few more inches on Sunday, February 7. 2021

More snow is expected later in the week.

On Tuesday, February 2, 2021 I was shoveling a path to the flag pole and the neighbor Kyle asked me if I needed any help, he has a small 4×4 with a nice sized plow on front, I asked him to clear the area by the mail box because the mail man had not been able to reach it on Monday. I had cleared a good part of it. He got it cleared to the curb and we have been able to get our mail since the next day.

Our mailbox all cleared for delivery

It is good to help a neighbor when you can, I have gotten to know the neighbors from the cookie deliveries and we do look out after each other, which is very nice.

The snow does look very pretty but we do look forward to spring and summer. However, live for today and enjoy the moment we have together.

Be well and stay safe!!!

Neighborhood


What does the neighborhood mean to you?

To me it means people who are friendly and great in their own ways.

I have gotten a better feel for the neighbors around us through the pandemic. As I mentioned in earlier posts when the pandemic prevented the support group from meeting in person I continued to bake cookies and deliver to the neighbors and the women I met doing grocery shopping for them in the early part of the pandemic.

Oatmeal Raisin Cookies Baked today

Dolores who lives on the third floor of the Willow Walk Apartment House will be 94 in April, she has given me several books to read, she tells me not to return to her but pass them on – which I have done. I was clear dry on what book to read next. Today when I delivered Oatmeal Raisin Cookies she gave me two books, not one book but two books: V2 by Robert Harris – a World War 2 Novel and The Shadows by Alex North – a murder mystery. She introduced me to David Baldacci a mystery writer – I have read several books that Dolores has given me. Now I have my reading set for a week or two.

Mark and Leslie up the street gave me a very generous check for DBSA Succasunna as a thank you for all the cookies. That was not necessary but very much appreciated.

Besides those two nice things, the man up the corner who decorated their house so nicely for Christmas said that the cookies bring a smile to their faces.

Mike the Dad of the two young girls a few houses down said the cookies are so delicious, the younger one was near by but was shy and stepped away the older one hid behind the door.

It is so wonderful to share my baking with so many people, it brings a little bit of joy to their day and it brings a lot of joy to my day, I love seeing the excitement and / or appreciation for the cookies.

Just a simple gesture has led me to know the neighbors a little bit better than before.

Some day after the pandemic is over I hope we can have a party with some of these people.

You can experience the excitement of sharing something with your neighbors or other people you may have opportunity to get to know a little better.

Be well and be safe! Better days are coming!